Elder Robert D. Hales
“As we respond to others, each circumstance will be
different. Fortunately, the Lord knows the hearts of our accusers and how we
can most effectively respond to them. As true disciples seek guidance from the
Spirit, they receive inspiration tailored to each encounter. And in every
encounter, true disciples respond in ways that invite the Spirit of the Lord” ….
... “As true disciples, our primary concern must be others’
welfare, not personal vindication. Questions and criticisms give us an
opportunity to reach out to others and demonstrate that they matter to our
Heavenly Father and to us. Our aim should be to help them understand the truth,
not defend our egos or score points in a theological debate. Our heartfelt
testimonies are the most powerful answer we can give our accusers. And such
testimonies can only be borne in love and meekness” (“Christian Courage: The Price
of Discipleship,” Ensign Nov. 2008, 73-74).